Love and Hate
Love and hate are two complex emotions that have been the subject of much study and discussion throughout history.
Love is an emotion that is characterized by feelings of warmth, affection, and attachment towards someone or something. It is often described as a positive emotion that is associated with feelings of contentment, joy, and well-being. Love can take many forms, such as romantic love, familial love, platonic love, and self-love. It is often associated with behaviours such as kindness, generosity, and forgiveness.
Hate, on the other hand, is an emotion characterized by feelings of anger, hostility, and aversion towards someone or something. It is often described as a negative emotion that is associated with feelings of anger, frustration, and resentment. Hate can be directed towards individuals, groups, or ideas and it is often associated with behaviours such as aggression, violence and discrimination.
It is important to note that these emotions are complex and can manifest in different ways, and the intensity and duration of these emotions can vary. Additionally, it is also possible to experience both emotions simultaneously or in different situations. For example, it is possible to love someone but also hate certain aspects of their behaviour or personality.
Overall, love and hate are two complex emotions that are an integral part of the human experience. They can have a profound impact on our thoughts, feelings, and behaviours, and they are often closely related to our personal relationships and interactions with others.
Love is blending and creating, a growth to meet a greater potential.
Hate is disrupting and destructive, a corrosion to meet destruction.
Love approaches reward while hate approaches fear.
Love = attraction : Hate = repulsion
Love comes together : Hate falls apart.
Sort your fears out by all means but don't dwell on them. Aim for the good, the more we see the good in people the better we tend to do.
Neurobiology of love is good for our health.
What I learned is to consider my loves and fears with different frames of mind to get a more balanced and realistic understanding of my position. When we only look at one thing we miss everything else.
What invokes love or hate in a person? Were does it come from?
I know my body can only be made from the food I eat and I use my body as I have learned how to use it. Similarly my mind can only be made from information I have collected and I use my mind as I have learned how to use it.
Love or hate can only come from a lifetime of information received along with the thinking processes, (cultural, social or institutional programming), of that individual person. So love and hate are uniquely personal emotional states that are fed from the environment, or more particularly the information being perceived from the environment. The environment could be the social environment, work environment, emotional environment, geographic environment, political environment, religious environment, bacterial environment... any or all environments.
Receiving and processing hate can lead to hate being automatically output. I would suggest that hating is not living your best life, (Obvious I know but it had to be said).
It appears to me that love is built up of likable aspects and the expectation of continuing likes in the future. The more likes the more the love. Even love at first sight stories still have the couple finding and sharing similarities.
- Love works
- Hate fails
- Love increases hope of better things to come
- Hate dashes hopes
- Love is healthy for our body
- Hate is unhealthy for our body.
- Love sustains us
- Hate drains us
- Love leads to creation
- Hate leads to destruction
What is love and what is hate?
Is there a neurobiology of hate?
I can invoke love or hate from memory in an instant, I suppose anyone can.
I see love and hate as opposites.
- opposites can annihilate each other
- opposites can cancel each other out, like with noise cancelling headphones.
- opposites can attract to make something bigger, like two magnet's opposite poles coming together to make one bigger magnet.
Why I see love as good and hate as bad.
Love is helping; Helping myself and my environment, including my human environment.
Love is blending and growing nicely forever.
Love is shared positive emotional time and the potential of more of the same. Some people genuinely love their cars for the positive emotional time shared with them while others might love their favourite soap opera.
Hate can be built up from a shared negative, threatening, pattern of emotional time and the potential of more of the same.
Some people genuinely hate spiders; they only see a threat, a threat that could damage them physically or emotionally. They only see the potential for pain.
People often hate who they are told to hate by characters of their romantic fantasies. Should probably watch out for that, wouldn't want to be someone's useful fool.
Next time you disagree with someone note if it is the messenger you don't like or the message that they are delivering.
Hate is what you will find if you look for it.
Hate does not support development.
Hate inhibits social standards, actually hate inhibits all standards.
Hate creates vulnerability.
Only Love actually works, anything less is simply less.
